Women in Football

Unfortunately our Lionesses were knocked out last night in the Euro semi-finals by the Netherlands. But regardless of that ‘failure’, they still reached their second semi-final in three years. They should be proud of this. We all should be.

“If the men’s team were doing this well, they’d have changed the name of our currency to Raheem Sterling.”

But our country should also be ashamed. Ashamed of the state football is in today, the inequality and the large sum of unsustainable money in the game.

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Over a hundred years ago we invented the glorious game, but in 1921 the FA banned football for women. A couple of weeks back Clare Balding hosted a great programme on Channel 4 – ‘When Football Banned Women’ . If you’re into football and or a feminist, get it watched.

During and after WWI women’s football was very popular but then all of a sudden they were banned from playing the sport for a whole 50 years because fuddy duddy men in the FA did not want women getting paid for playing football. Outrageous!

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As much as women’s football is now legal, the game is still far from being equal. Just this week Neymar was sold to PSG for a record breaking £200mil, he’ll be earning £782k a week! Compare this to the highest paid female footballer, Steph Houghton who earns roughly £60k a year… again… outrageous!

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In Clare’s documentary she visited a girl’s team, when asked who their heroes and heroines were they replied Stevie G, Jagielka, Joe Hart etc. Not very many heroines, and why would there be? Women’s football gets very little coverage. The past few weeks the Euro’s have been taking place in the Netherlands, I’ve seen very little of the tournament on the back pages of newspapers, I’ve not seen one St George’s flag in a super market, or dangling off people’s car. How can the future stars of England’s women’s team have a heroine role model when the media don’t cover their game?

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The FA have set a target for 2020 to double the number of women and girls playing football, they have also been running a girl’s football week (16th July – 6th August) with the aim to raise the sport’s profile. It would be great to see at the next women’s World Cup held in France a bigger hype, helping improve equality and respect in the sport.

Good luck to all working to achieve that, and chin up Lionesses! x

My Homage to Girls

My Girls journey began right at the very start, in 2012. I was in my last year of uni, facing big life choices, having an identity crisis, coping with a new boyfriend, losing and making friends, gaining parents approval, blah blah blah… Watching Girls provided me confidence, solidarity and a good old giggle.

Over the last five years as Hannah, Marnie, Jessa, Shosh, Elijah, Ray and Adam grew, so did I. They are all messes in their own special way. None of their relationships are conventional or perfect. And this gave me comfort. It made me realise that very few people actually have their shit together.

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I would like to thank each one of them.

Hannah for embracing her lumpy bumpy nakedness and making me feel worthy to embrace my own.

Jessa for her no fucks given attitude.

Marnie for her annoyingness.

(yeah I struggled to find pics for Marnie, she really did annoy me)

Shosh for her honesty.

And the lads (Elijah, Ray, Adam).

I am very sad that Girls is now over. Throughout the final series I have burst into tears over and over again. The penultimate episode for me was amazing, in my mind it should of been the last. It would of been a great ending. All of them together, hashing it out, laughing, dancing. It gave me some satisfactory closure. Then along came Monday’s episode. I’m unsure if it was really needed, I feel we could of all just left how Hannah would be as a mam to our own imagination. Nevertheless, the final scene gave me goosebumps.

Along the way Girls has mirrored my relationship with friends. Some off getting married, others having babies, others off travelling, others doing great in a career, others doing not a lot at all. Some I have drifted apart from, realising that perhaps what we had in common we no longer do. Some I have grown closer to, depending on each other in new ways.

What Girls has definitely done is revive feminism. Never before has twitter, instagram, blogs, newspapers, tv been more littered with feminist talk. Again, for that, Girls I am grateful.

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Anyway. Thank you Girls.

I’m now off to yoga in my fangirl t-shirt to pay further homage.